How to Gain Trust from Your Girlfriend


As relationships progress, we sometimes find girlfriends that just can’t stand it when you hang out with friends that are girls, or watch you like a hawk when you’re out anywhere.

Be 100% honest! In doing this you will gain your partner’s trust. Always remember that girl hate a liar.

Always be truthful. Even in the situations where even a small lie could get you out of lots of trouble, don’t do it. Your partner will find out about everything you do and you will not get away with it.

Make sure you trust her. Without your trust for your girlfriend, she definitely won’t be able to trust you. To know if you trust her, think of situations you would want to do, and if you could see your girlfriend doing those same things. For instance if you wanted to hang out with some girls at the mall, see if you could imagine her doing the same thing with guys. If not, then understand that some things fall beyond trust, including putting yourself into tempting situations.

Make sure your girlfriend finds out first above anybody if you have done anything to mess up. Anytime you hear something bad that your partner did before they tell you, you always presume worse than what it actually is. Friends always distort the truth to your girlfriend, and eventually the truth will get out. Its always better to hear first-hand what happened, and to seek forgiveness then.

Keep your promises. To do this, make sure your promises are realistic, and you are willing to follow through before making them. If you are not able to, don’t promise or it will cause more hurt then hopes.

Don’t make second mistakes. Be sure that if you’ve done something wrong, do your best not to do it again. If you saw her sob to death when you did something special to a friend and that particular situation made her think that she’s being cheated, stop doing special things for that friend! Because if you’d keep on proving that you’re not doing anything wrong, she might think that you are defending that girl, and she will surely feel disrespected. Girls are very sensitive and they don’t like being neglected.

Be patient with your girl. Just because someone doesn’t trust you in a particular situation, doesn’t mean they don’t love you. Always be patient about this issue, its very trying.